History Lesson

In the 1600’s to the 1800’s, courting candles were used by the man of the home to set boundaries for his daughter. When the daughter’s suitor came calling, the father lit the candle in a sitting room where the couple conversed. When the candles burnt to the metal at the top of the candle holder, it was time for the suitor to promptly leave. However, the father could change the height of the candle based on how comfortable he felt about the suitor. Also, the father could immediately snuff out the candle or add a second candle depending on what he deemed necessary. The courting candle served as a quiet, yet firm reminder to the suitor to end his date.

Rich or poor, the courting candle was used by fathers from all economic backgrounds. It taught daughters to respect their parents’ judgment. The candle also taught the suitor to defer to the father’s ability to judge a man. Although it may sound like a crazy notion by today’s standards, the courting candle served as an important boundary line in the family and social fabrics.

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Sew much to do...

No that's not a typo! I have been busy, busy, busy working on gifts for babies and birthdays. Can't wait to show you pictures of what I'm working on. For now, though, you'll have to be patient ;0)

Oh, and for the next three weeks I will be baking and decorating one cake each week for babies and birthdays. I'm kind of new at cake decorating. My husband is enjoying it since I'm making test cakes before I actually make the real thing. I'll show you pictures if they come out okay. Wish me luck!!!

In between everything, I work full time. What am I thinking?!?

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